Romance is a state of mind
Romance is, like anything else, about focus and attention - attention
to detail, to what we do, and to what we want. It's human nature to desire
attention, which goes hand in hand with affection. When we pay attention
to our loved ones, really pay attention, we will find opportunities
for romance.
Here are some ideas for generating and keeping romance alive
in your relationship.
1. Monthly planning. Set aside a few minutes one day a month to plan
a couple of romantic events. The nice thing is that you can do as much
or as little, and be as simple or extravagant as you like. The main thing
is to set a goal, maybe a couple of times a month at first. (Ideally you
would do something every week.) It could start as simply as leaving a nice
note in your significant other's jacket pocket, or be as complex as a surprise
weekend getaway. Just put a little thought into it and you will be surprised
at the impact that simple, romantic gestures can have on your love life!
2. Use the Internet. Sign up with various doings and goings
on about town to create romantic getaways or evenings. Travel specials,
flowers, food, lingerie, city happenings websites like Sign
On San Diego are handy. They will give you ideas to use now or later.
If you're running short on time, have something delivered, or send a gift
certificate, e-card, etc. And when you find things on sale....
3. Gift Closet. Stock it all the time-that way when you
need a quick gift, it's already there waiting. Try to make a habit of always
being on the lookout for sweet and thoughtful gifts for your loved one.
It doesn't have to be a lot, maybe a card, or anything you think they will
like.
4. Pampering is irresistible. San Diego is home to many world class
spas from the Four
Seasons Aviara to L'Auberge
Del Mar Resort & Spa. If you are in a pinch though, grab an old
sheet, throw it over the couch and give your honey a nice relaxing back
massage or even a nice foot rub. Olive oil with a little floral essence
or rosemary sprig added makes massage great oil.
5. Get out there and do things together on a regular basis. San Diego
has a plethora of easy, spontaneous and fun things to do.
We like Pedicab rides downtown, a walk along La Jolla Cove, wine tasting
at Orfila, touring the museums or bicycling through Balboa Park on a bicycle
built for 2, or gondola rides at Loews Coronado.
6. Send flowers on a regular basis. Who does not love to receive flowers?
FloraStyle Florists in Hillcrest can send a beautiful bouquet to anyone,
anywhere. Contact
info@florastyle.com.
Romance goes both ways, you have to be willing to receive it in order
to give it. Romance doesn't happen on it's own very often, but there is
some good news - romance is highly contagious, and it gets even better every
time.
photo credit B&W couple at top by Zelman Studios
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Valentine's Day! A holiday devoted to romance, love and
passion. What better way to celebrate love than to plan a special evening,
day or weekend with your love. Here are some fun ideas for you to create
even more romance in your life from the simple to the sublime. L'Amour
c'est magnifique!
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| A Romantic Picnic by the Vines
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It has been said that all of wine's associations are with
the occasions when people are at their best; with relaxation, contentment,
leisurely meals and the free flow of ideas. And, of course, love! This Valentine's
Day picnic beneath grape arbors overlooking vineyards and the beautiful
San Pasqual Valley at lovely Orfila Vineyards. Bring your own food but
drink Orfila's wine -it is fantastic and award winning- you can even tour
the vineyards and wine-taste inside with the very friendly and knowledgeable
Orfila staff.
Orfila is easy to find and closer than you think. Take
Via Rancho Parkway exit east from 15 and go 1 mile. Turn right on San Pasqual
road and at exactly one mile look up in the hilltop to your right. Orfila
Vineyards!
Talk to Orfila
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| Valentine's Dinner at Terra
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Terra Restaurant-winner of Wine Spectator's 2001 award of
excellence creates a relaxed and casual atmosphere of great food & wine,
without the pretentiousness & stuffiness of fine dining. Terra celebrates
the best the earth can offer with seasonal menus which reflect its ties
to the freshest local & regional products available. Terra is the perfect
place to celebrate Valentine's Day with your fiance. While you are there
check out their capacity as one of our favorite rehearsal dinner, shower,
tea or gathering spots. They even cater!
Terra Valentine's Dinner
A delicious 4 course romantic dinner with Chef Jeff's imaginative and
exciting style. Choice of Appetizer: Macadamia Crusted Oysters or Smoked
Beef Carpaccio, Asparagus confit, caper berries and chile oil. Second course
offers a choice of: Lobster Bisque with puff pastry or House Salad with
roasted garlic honey vinaigrette, endive, arugula, Thai basil, mint, radicchio,
gorgonzola cheese and candied pecans. Entrée choice of Filet Mignon
and Gulf Shrimp with beet risotto cake with goat cheese and honey peppercorn
sauce or Pan Roasted Grouper with black beluga lentils, manila clams and
chardonnay herb broth or Roasted Duck dried fruit bread pudding and duck
jus. Finished off with a Sweetheart's Dessert Sampler of Chocolate Tower
with raspberry and hazelnut Kaffir Lime Curd Tartlett and Lemongrass Coconut
Gelato. All this for only $39 Per Person or with a special seating to see
'The Lettermen' on Friday Feb 14th - $99 or Saturday Feb 15th - $89
Reserve your place today
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| Chocolate Anyone?
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Bodega Chocolates, famous for their
generations-old family chocolate recipe, has some great Valentine's specials
available for chocolate lovers and, well, just lovers! Want a simple and
nice Valentine's Day recipe? Bodega's yummy chocolates, a bottle of champagne
or cabernet sauvignon to enhance the essence of chocolate and "Like Water
for Chocolate" on DVD. Kick back, relax and and revel in the sweetness of
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| Affairs to Remember
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L'Auberge Del Mar Resort and Spa is offering a 15% savings
when you schedule your bridal event during the month of February. This includes
bridal showers and teas, rehearsal dinners, wedding receptions and more!*
*15% Discount is taken on menu only. Menu
prices are subject to tax and 20% service charge. Offer is subject to availability
and may be subject to change. Not available for groups or in conjunction
with any other offer. Previously contracted events not eligible.
Please contact Dominique Zavradinos for booking
information
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| Yoga for Couples
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The word "yoga" translates as "union". Yoga is a wonderful
tool for getting to know yourself better. You may not know that it is also
perfect as a relaxing and intimate activity to share with your significant
other.
Saturday, February 15th, 4:30 - 10:00pm at The Olympic Hotel and Spa
in Carlsbad, The Soul of Yoga, a local school for yoga that specializes
in couples yoga, is holding a very special night for celebrating love.
This extra special spiritual evening includes gentle couples yoga (for
yogis and non yogis alike) with nurturing massage, live music, romantic
slow dancing, renewal of love workshop and a catered fireside dinner.
Reserve your space now
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